Wednesday, March 28, 2018

My Final Post

Hi guys. I'm sorry I've been so quiet. I wanted to hop back on and explain that this will be my final post.

Things are going well... it's nothing like that. But that other chapter in my life that I talked about last time... I need to take something off my plate so I can give more energy to the other things I've got going on. 

I will leave my blog up for a bit. I have to fix my pictures as I accidentally deleted them. Eventually I plan to archive my blog so I have it to look back on and delete it. 

I wish you all well. If you want to contact me you can comment or shoot me an email, whichever you prefer. 

I'm sad to leave, but I know something's got to give. I began blogging to process all this and I feel that I have. I have worked out the 'why' for myself behind what we do and why I have the need for it. I will always have this little diary to look back on and I thank you to all of you who were a part of my journey. If you'd like to keep in touch I would be happy to do so.

As far as DD/ D/s, we are still going strong and that won't change. I just don't feel the need to share it anymore. It's ours, our own little way, and it works. 

Before I struggled to understand it but now I wear it as my own, with a quiet confidence. We get each other and a shared look is all we really need to 'get each other'. 
That security leaves me free to move on to the next thing and focus my energy elsewhere. 

I wish you all well. It's been a pleasure getting to know you all and all the different ways we practice our dynamics. 

Something I've been wanting to share ...


Isn't that great! A 'Love Is' for spankos!

J texted it to me one day and it brought back the early days of our marriage when he would print these out and hide them around the house randomly for me to find. 

A few thoughts before I go (because this is where I'm at)...

Embrace the 'real' people in your lives. Log off of those computers and LIVE... I am learning to do more of this.

Don't spread yourself too thin. It's ok to give something up for a season or for good. You don't have to be super woman. 

Be careful who you trust. Friendships take time and face to face encounters. You never really know someone without these. 

Hold onto your family, especially your babies. You don't know how long you will have them. 

Love yourself enough to let go of things that are not good for you.


Love to you all,

Jlynne




8 comments:

  1. Hi Jlynne,

    I have enjoyed reading here and getting to know you a little. Glad to hear you and J are doing well and will be sad to see you go.

    Wishing you, J and family the very best.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thank you Roz,
      I have enjoyed getting to know you as well and have appreciated your faithful support here. All the best to you and Rick.

      Hugs,
      Jlynne

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  2. It has been nice getting to 'know' you. Sounds like you have your priorities really in line. Good luck, much love and many many happy spankings...hugs abby

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    1. Thank you Abby,
      I have enjoyed getting to know you as well. It's not every day you meet someone in blog land who knows how to make the pork pie!
      Yes to the happy spankings and I wish the same for you!!
      Hugs,
      Jlynne

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  3. Well this is truly bitter sweet. I am happy for you that you found your place within yourself. I do totally understand the not needing to process in a public arena anymore- though there are still days when I need to. ( You can make your blog go private with only you and J to access it if you like- that way you never have to delete it).

    I want to reiterate something I have said to you before, I am sorry that you were burned with people you trusted in blogland. As you know so was I. BUT, even after all of that, I still don't believe this to be true, " Friendships take time and face to face encounters. You never really know someone without these. " all of the time. I have met some fantastic people online, and some who I have yet to encounter face to face, but I know very much they are real. Sure I placed my trust in one who I never should have, but guess what? My instinct told me right from the start something was off with this woman- I should have known better. Oh she was real, she lives her version of ttwd, but she wasn't as kind as she portrayed herself. Thing is even face to face I wouldn't have known that. So, maybe don't write everyone 'off' because of your experience with one or two. There are far too many good people you might miss out on if you do. Let yourself heal of course, but maybe some day you can come back, comment , chat, goof around.

    Best of luck to you both.

    willie

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    1. Thank you Willie,
      This really isn't because of anyone. It's just time for me. Some of us stay here long term and others find that they need to reflect for a time and move on.
      I want you to know that I have enjoyed our chats and hope they will continue. I do see you and all of those in blogland as very real and hope I didn't offend anyone with what I said.
      Keep in touch. I'm not totally disappearing or anything.

      Jlynne

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  4. Hi, Jlynne,
    I'm happy things are at a place you are comfortable. That's good to know. Wishing you well.
    --Baker

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